Monthly Archives: February 2018

Without Respect, There is No Love

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“Without respect, there is no love. Without trust, there’s no reason to continue.”

This is a powerful quote from Paul Chucks that must resonate to all family members torn by strife and conflict. It is also a timely reminder as we celebrate the month of hearts!

For the past six years after its founder Richard’s passing, the “A” family typically gathers for their mid-year family and business council meeting every third Sunday of the sixth month. The family calls it Code 36 representing the third Sunday of the sixth month. It is an event combining family and business performance review with a segment on ownership alignment. I normally add flavor by injecting governance, strategy and growth during the session.

This activity is separate from their regular family and business council meetings. In the Family Constitution that my advisory firm, Wong Advisory drafted six years ago, the members of the Family Council must meet for a total of 20 hours a year spread over five to six meetings while the Business Council members are required to meet every month.

My firm added Code 36 together with the other governance councils before the founder passed away primarily because the family and the business almost fell apart due to major conflicts on many areas (entitlement, in law participation, decision making, power struggle, conflict of interest). The infighting was so intense that it grounded the business to a halt for several years and caused so much heartbreak for the founder. 

In this year’s forthcoming gathering, a total number of 23 members of the second and third generation are expected to attend. Their age ranges from 61 to 15 coming from the founder’s five children and their families. Those below 15 years old can join but are not obligated to be in the function room.

Relevant topics are sorted months before but the objectives are four fold:

  • Evaluate the state of family and the business
  • Review mid-year performances of the operating units
  • Develop long-term goals for the business
  • Evaluate policies to govern family- business relationships

The overarching core messages remain the same and revolve on five powerful values handpicked by the founder himself: Communication + Respect + Trust +Unity = Growth

Just like the last gathering in December, the meeting usually starts with the clan’s Gen 2 anointed leader reiterating the family’s shared vision and values and a story about the growth of the business since its humble beginnings in the 1960’s.

The objective is to remind the younger generation and the extended family members how their grandfather Richard and his wife jointly founded the business through hard work and honest dealings with customers and suppliers. Then a short seven-minute video of the family history will be played. The emotional video instantaneously reconnects the deceased founder to all the members of the two generations and reminds everyone that through regular and open lines of communication, the family enterprise can overcome temporary setbacks.

After the talk, a Gen 3 member usually in charge of finance will report how the business performed over the last quarters and the outlook for the succeeding quarters.

Then the legal counsel, a non-family professional will then provide a quick review of the ownership structure by way of educating newly inducted family members on the importance of stewardship as well as shareholder qualifications and responsibilities. Recently employed family members are those who were invited, signed the constitution and are now full-fledged family assembly members.

To be continued…

esoriano@wongadvisory.com

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Unlocking Your Full Potential

In one of my coaching engagements for a mid-sized family business last year, I recall censuring a next generation business leader in a QBR (quarterly business review) for failing to deliver on his performance targets.

The results were dismal and instead of owning up to the debacle, he ended up pointing fingers at his subordinates. While he was trying to absolve himself of any responsibility, I stood up and showed him two slides.

Slide 1 came from Tom Landry

“A Coach is someone who tells you what you don’t want to hear, who makes you see what you do not want to see, so that you can be who you have always known you can be.”

Slide 2 came from lightboxleadership.com

“Accept Responsibility for your actions. Be Accountable for your results and Take Ownership of your mistakes.”

The role of a Business Coach is to challenge business owners by way of visioning, accountability and encouragements. It also helps organizations enhance their operations, sales, marketing, management and so much more. Most importantly, just like a sporting coach, a Business Coach will make you focus on the game.

Business coaching is extremely effective in creating successful actions designed to move the business owner in a positive direction.  It is the partnering of client and coach in an extraordinary relationship aligned towards achieving big goals set in milestones. In my years of experience coaching organizations all over the world, a good example of a focused plan is to align organizations and its executives toward a possible listing in the stock exchange in the immediate future.

So, what exactly is business coaching?

Business coaching is for clients who are READY to make changes and improvements in their business. It gives the entrepreneur a business partner who doesn’t necessarily share in the business profits.  Anyone who’s ever had a business partner knows that partnerships are rarely equal. With a Business Coach, you’ll receive unbiased strategic advice for a retained monthly fee usually covering a number of hours, not 50% of your profits.

Business coaching is about SPEED, ACTION and ACCOUNTABILITY. Think about all the workshops and conferences you have attended where you learned a new technique or strategy that was never implemented. Your Business Coach will help you get it done and hold you accountable, but you must be ready to take action. The client does the work, not the coach.

Business coaching CHALLENGES the status quo and exact GOVERNANCE. Your Business Coach asks, “What are your challenges?  What are you NOT doing?  When are you going to do that?”

Business coaching promotes CLARITY OF ROLES between the owner and the professionals consistent with corporate as well as personal values.  When your values are aligned with your business, greater success is possible.

Business coaching helps the business owner create a SHARED VISION AND MISSION for the organization.  A business owner with a Vision is much more likely to succeed than one that doesn’t know where he’s going.

Business coaching helps the business owner identify OPPORTUNITIES.  A Business Coach can help you to see an opportunity you may have passed up.

Business coaching helps the business owner see his business through a DIFFERENT PAIR OF EYES.  A Business Coach can see what you don’t see.

Business coaching brings out the BEST in the entrepreneur.  Have you ever had someone truly interested in your success? Business coaching will push you out of your comfort zone, take you to your limits and in the end you will embrace it!